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Post by thinkaboutgoo on May 26, 2012 10:36:01 GMT -5
I hate it. Everything is always my fault. Back in 2009 we got behind in bills as I was only working 12 hrs a week doing summer school. Well last year I started working at Wal-mart to help us catch up and so I would have a summer job. Well.....stuff is starting to fall apart in the house ( pipe's leaking, toilet leaking etc.) and I am being blamed for trying to keep us afloat back then by making arrangemnets for bills etc. We are coming to the end of a couple and I had kept some of it from him as to how bad it was. Now he is yelling and complaining he doesn't have the $ to fix the thing that need to be fixed. He had made $1,100 from his friend for doing work and never offered any of that $ up for things. Now he is saying he would have if he had known. I guess it was spent on gas for his truck which he is complaining about too. I am finally feeling ok about things but....I can't get thru to him on anything. He is set minded and blames me when things are not the way they are supposed to be or HIS way. We discussed him only putting $225 dollars a week in the bank instead of $250 but what does he put in this week? $250 and he is saying he has no $. I didn't leve him a note saying how much to put in. Be a man and step up. Write your own note or reminder. During mother's day he said he didn't need to buy me anything as I was NOT his mother well....seems like I am sometimes. Ugg....I feel better. Off to spend $ we don't have,
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Post by googal70 on May 26, 2012 20:03:33 GMT -5
ugg money battles I'm sorry they suck for sure. I'm getting flack for going to FL in August for a long weekend. WTF it's my money, just because he chooses not to spend some of his money is not my issue.
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Post by thinkaboutgoo on May 27, 2012 9:33:58 GMT -5
That and sex are the 2 things we fight about the most. I saw a Joel Osteen sermon lastnight talking about trying NOT to change people and just accept them for who they are. Some days it is hard.
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Post by googal70 on May 27, 2012 15:43:36 GMT -5
yes sex too lol!
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Post by thinkaboutgoo on May 27, 2012 16:19:50 GMT -5
I am reading the 5 love languages. It is eye opening. We speak different languages for sure.
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Post by googal70 on May 27, 2012 17:27:41 GMT -5
that is true
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Post by thinkaboutgoo on Jun 1, 2012 14:29:11 GMT -5
Sheila's sister recommended it.
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Post by googal70 on Jun 1, 2012 15:00:50 GMT -5
hmmm I'll have to look at that book.
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