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Post by thinkaboutgoo on Mar 30, 2012 21:59:00 GMT -5
I started out the day today with C and George arguing while I was trying to sleep. Then I get to school and have a rough morning. Then the fundraising people show up and just drop the stuff and run. Then while we were sorting it we had a shelter-in-place drill (You are locked into the rooms and can't get out til the situation is clear) not sure exactly what happened. Then I had a meeting after work which lasted til 5pm or so, a Party light party which gave me a headache and a text message from James asking if I can get him at 8:30 or 9pm.
I'm pissed the most about James. Last weekend we chatted about him coming up but never finalized plans. I told him I am a very busy person and need to know details about things asap. Well everyone else was telling me about him coming up but he never called me. Even after multiple people told him to call. He is very inconsiderate lately. So when I got that text at about 7:30 pm It made me mad.
Finally about 10:15pm tonight we chatted and I explained to him about me needing plans etc. He is currently living with my neice Sammy. That is a good thing I hope...but he is still gravitating to the people he should not be hanging with especially after last weeks dealings. So when he called I told him I would come get him if he needed me to but....I would prefer next weekend.
I am sorry I am venting but it makes me feel better. Ahh.....
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Post by googal70 on Mar 31, 2012 8:21:35 GMT -5
I'm sorry you had a crappy day. Next week J's school is having the same drill. Should be interesting with the little ones, they've never had a lockdown drill.
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Post by buffalogal on Mar 31, 2012 9:40:33 GMT -5
sorry you are still have issues with James. He needs to understand that you are working 2 jobs and have lots of other stuff going on. I hope he doesn't go back with that group, they are not good.
It is okay for you to vent, we all do it here. Hope it made you feel better.
Laura
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Post by thinkaboutgoo on Apr 7, 2012 20:13:48 GMT -5
So glad for the vent shaft....so much for getting James tonight. I was heading to pick him up and do a few errands before and I get a text message asking when we were eating dinner tomorrow. He said he was hoping we were eating lunch and not supper. Maybe if we got to chat in the phone instead of text messages or if he really payed attention to what I have to say then he would know what was going on.
I told him last week I had to work tomorrow and C was making dinner for me to eat when I got home. I was supposed to get him at 9pm tonight and have him til tomorrow after dinner. well now....that is not happening.
I am so pissed.....when I ask a question he half answers it and then tries to turn things around and make it out like we did it. WTF!!!! I love my son but I hope he smartens up. It drives me crazy.
Thanks for listening again. I really appreciate it. I wish he was a little kid again as maybe I would have been able to do somehting different. Maybe if I was a mother to him instead of NOT being there.
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Post by googal70 on Apr 8, 2012 6:54:32 GMT -5
I'm sorry
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Post by googirl4ever on Apr 8, 2012 14:23:47 GMT -5
Ruth, I am so sorry. I wish there was something I could say or do to make things better. Laura is right, he needs to understand that you are working 2 jobs and have a lot to deal with. We all need to make compromises, etc. and we don't always have things our way.
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Post by googal70 on Apr 9, 2012 8:18:42 GMT -5
Very true Sheila.
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Post by thinkaboutgoo on Apr 9, 2012 14:45:19 GMT -5
Just knowing you guys are here to listen is enough. I appreciate it.
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Post by googal70 on Apr 9, 2012 17:11:48 GMT -5
Yes that does help.
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